Naughty First

adult dating is a common practice these days. People from all walks of life and social backgrounds are in a quest. It is a quest of a lifetime -- a quest for true love. Many think that frequent dating can lead them nearer and nearer to what or who they are looking for. There is a desperate need for someone to be with, play with, fight with, talk with... someone who will accept them for who they are. They are looking for someone who can love them. A true partner whom they could love in return. Many commit mistakes on this by just looking for anyone who might be available, and lonely at the same time. They thought that a partner like this can meet the need they have in their lives. Some would even say its such a backward thought to be so ideal about relationships. Without really considering the other factors that really counts. One obvious and urgent need a person has is someone who will show her concern and allow intimate relationship without being really committed. They establish a limitation with their partner by drawing a line between them. As a person, we also have physical needs. The need to have someone who will hold and caress us. Many people try to separate the physical with the emotional aspect of the person. They say they can only share their body but not their heart. They can allow only physical contact like hugs, kiss and even caresses but no longer beyond that.

How many of us who can honestly say that our longing for true love can be met by some one's caress and warm gentle hand? How many can say that our desperate need for true love can be filled by a moment of sweet encounter filled with hugs, kisses and soft caresses?

Maybe the next time we go out with someone, on a friendly trip together or a romantic date, let us examine ourselves. What are we really looking for in this person? Are we preoccupied with thoughts of getting this person to be intimate with us, for the sweet caress or wishing that the person will actually be our "happily ever after" prince?

I strongly believe that we all can find what we are looking for, we just need to be willing to wait and not rush on things, especially those that relate to love and relationship.