Naughty First

I felt rather embarrassed that I couldn't meet a decent man to have a relationship with and had to resort to online dating. My Jennifer is my idol of the social world. She manages to meet fabulously handsome men, has the romantic first date which has always led to a second date with herand when it is over with her and her boyfriend it is not long at before she is back in action. I am sure that is how it will be until she picks one to be her husband.

It is not that I want to look like Jennifer. I am content with my appearance. I don't think Jennifer is scores more attractive than myself. She just draws people in. Fed up with the party boys and players I finally conceded I needed help if I ever wanted to get past the first date much less ever end up with a husband.

Jennifer gave me great advice. She explained to me that it isn't about her appearance and what other people think of her it all comes down to what she thinks of herself. Confident and content women can behave more naturally around the opposite sex. She gave me other tips too such as never deflect a compliment but accept it graciously and to never down grade your self like saying things such as '' I am so stupid, I forgot your birthday''. Another example of this is not replying ''that is ok'' or ''it doesn't matter'' when someone apologizes to you. It does matter. Accept the apology genuinely and move on. That is why Jennifer is my idol. She really made sense and gave me some things to think about.

I realized I had been doing many of the things that Jennifer said not to. I put her words into action and made my foray into the social world again as a more confident woman. It wasn't long at all until I met a nice man and we had our first date of many together. No, he didn't become my husband but I am more confident about dating and socializing now than ever before thanks to my friend and idol Jennifer.