Naughty First

These dating websites emails are in my junk folder every day. They all start out with about the same thing. "YOU HAVE A MESSAGE WAITING FOR YOU CLICK HERE." Yes, very funny when you think about it. The advertising on these emails are really silly.

It’s really sweetthat my friends frequent these places and tell me stories both good and bad about the people they have met. Several of my friends have told me they enjoy the exciting time they spend chatting in a room full of others trying to find a special someone. The conversations are usually easy going, but sometimes they can get a bit rough too. When this happens it’s anything but exciting. I have had several girl friends tell me chatter caused them to leave a sweet handsome contact because he would just get so belligerent to others in a chat room. No tolerance for other men talking to them in a chat room and if they found out that they were members of several dating websites the same problem would come up. Jealousy it seems ruins it for them both.

Many of these dating websites are monitored, but not all. The monitors are a real help in situations like that. Some are really sweet to all and stay out of any conflicts that come up other than to tell them to take their problem to a private chat. It seems to me if these guys are really happy with themselves they wouldn’t act like they do when all they have to do is type to someone on a screen. I would think with the privacy they have by being online they could at least attempt to be sweet and conversational at least. I guess it takes all kinds of people to make the world turn as gramps used to tell me all the time. He would say not every toad when kissed is an exciting handsome man and not every sweet talker is a handsome sweetheart either darlin’. I think when your 12 that kind of thing just sort of falls off of you, but looking back at that now. Yes I think he was giving me pearls. Grandma was certain that no man would ever be good enough for me; all she told me was stay away from boys until your 30 and then only if daddy said he was ok. Of course that didn't work, but good try grandma!